stood up

After a two hour drive (because of traffic and horrible Google Maps directions) from Palatine to my friend's house in the city and two bus transfers to a very shady Starbucks, i was stood up by a woman who was sopposed to be meeting me for a portfolio review. I've never been stood up before and i was pissed! What happened here?! DId she forget? Did she have an emergency? Did she just decide to leave because i was 5 minutes late (thanks CTA)? I feel like I am constantly being tested here. Another knotch on my belt.